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BE A Better You in 5 Steps

At Be That Books, we’re all about self improvement, self reflection and self go-getting. We believe that you really can do anything you set your mind to, as our authors Tina O’Connor, Eddie LeMoine and Mai Lieu can all attest. Through some simple (and not so simple) life changes,  you can be on your way to a BETTER YOU in no time.


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Here are 5 things to help you get started!


BE Growth Oriented – Commit yourself to personal growth by asking the hard questions. What are my negative traits? Am I typically late to arrive, arrogant or unnecessarily critical of others? The changes do not need to happen overnight, but baby steps to making some traits less negative.

BE a Role Model – The best way to become a better person it to be a role model to others. How can you be an inspirational guide to others? Live by example. In being a role model, it is important to remember it is not about making yourself into something you are not. It is about living your true ideal self.

BE a Better Member of Your Community – What communities do you belong to? What are your interest/hobbies? Recreational clubs? Church? There are many ways to be a better member in your community, all you have to do is show up!

BE Curious – Have an insatiable thirst for knowledge and never stop learning. There are always new things to learn, no matter how much you know! Take the next step and hone your current skills; there’s always room to improve.

BE Coachable & Cooperative – To better yourself, this is not a good time to be seclusive or insular. There is always something to be learned from working with others, no matter their age, background or area of expertise. Don’t close yourself off to opportunities because you think you know enough, open your mind and let every moment be a learning lesson.



BE the best YOU you can BE!







‘Be That Books’ is on the Move!


Take the Next Step

by Mai Lieu

is almost ready to go!



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and be one of the first to have Mai’s ‘Secrets to Creating Success’ !




Eddie LeMoine takes his book on the road!


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The newest in the ‘Be That’ series needs your help!
Do you have a kinky bedroom confession up your sleeve?
Tina would love to hear all about it!
(She’ll keep you anonymous, don’t worry.)

Only accepted submissions will be contacted.
Stories should be a maximum of 5 typed pages.

Please submit your stories via email by September 8th! 


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Have a great weekend!

Share Your Love of Reading with Your Community #LittleFreeLibraries

Reading Share




Have you seen a little box like this around your community?



What is a Little Free Library?

A Little Free library is a “take a book, return a book” place where neighbours share their favourite literature and stories without having to go to a traditional library. In its most basic form, a Little Free Library is a box full of books where anyone may stop by and pick up a book (or two) and leave another book to share.


Who Started the Movement   –  

In 2009 Todd Bol of Hudson, Wisconsin, built the first model to liken a one room schoolhouse, as a tribute to his mother (a former school teacher who loved reading).  He filled it with books and put it on a post in his front yard.  His neighbours and friends loved it.  He built several more and gave them away.  Each one had a sign that said FREE BOOKS.


If you’d like to find out where ‘Little Free Libraries’ exist in your area, click HERE.


If you would like to steward a Little Free Library in your community, you can now apply for a free one from Calgary Reads! Email with your name, desired location, community name and reason why you think this community would benefit from a Little Free Library. Preference will be given to applicants that will commit to steward a library in a publicly accessible place and in communities that don’t already have a Little Free Library.


Bring your community together by sharing the love of reading. It is something we can all get behind!

Happy Reading!


Are Digital Distractions Ruining Your Vacation?


Statistics show that we are interacting more with our digital devices on vacation than we are with each other. Families are encouraged to take daily, one-hour breaks from technology for a week and to disconnect from all things electronic, with the goal of helping spouses, parents, and children build stronger bonds to get more involved in each other’s lives. Pledging to take a ‘Tech Timeout’ while on vacation will lend to families relating on a more personal level, which is the ultimate point of the family vacation.

Even if you are staying home for a ‘Staycation’, ‘Tech Timeouts’ are still strongly encouraged.  The same came be planned for weekends too.




Good Reasons to Use Tech on Vacation:

-Kids are ill.
-Reading stories or books in an online format.
-Watching a movie while travelling or on a rainy day.
-Using tech to look up something that you are all interested in learning about.



The whole point of a vacation is to reconnect with your family,
so make a point to slow down your connectivity with others.


Meet Our Newest Author, Mai Lieu

Mai Lieu is a successful inventor, businesswoman, author, and inspirational speaker who talks the talk and walks the walk. In fact, she is changing the discourse on entrepreneurship and blazing a trail of success for others to follow.

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With more than 20 years experience in the beauty industry, she has won more than 7 first-place International hairdressing awards. She has worked and trained all over the world (USA, Canada, China, and Europe) and she has also been featured in the the Star Bulletin, Hawaii’s Business Mid-Week, KITV, KHON, KHNL TV, Global TV Canada, as well as over 10 radio stations! As an inspirational speaker, Mai is passionate about inspiring others to follow their dreams and sharing her secrets to creating success.

Mai Lieu lives, loves and surfs in Hawaii.

Here is your first glimpse of Mai on Hawaii News Now, discussing some of her CreaProducts.


Hawaii News Now – KGMB and KHNL




Pre-order your copy of ‘Take the Next Step’ NOW!


6 Tips to Brush Up Your Reading Comprehension Skills

In a previous post, we discussed the importance of ‘Summer Reading‘ and how over the summer months off school, up to three reading levels can be lost. The same thing happens when our reading comprehension skills are not up to snuff. Do you always retain everything that you read? How much do you recall when asked about the chapter you just read… a minute after reading it, or two weeks after reading it?

Helping out your reading comprehension skills is easy to do, whether you are a child learning to read or a well versed adult reader. You might be one of the lucky few who can remember every single detail, but for most of the population, this is not the case. Let’s explore a few ways that can help with better reading comprehension, to get the most out of what you read!

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Keep Notes- Taking notes is a good way to boost reading comprehension. If it is for a class, choose a notebook. If it is just pleasure reading, a few pieces of paper and a pencil will do.

Read Your Notes- Wait a day, then read back your notes. If your notes make no sense, you’ll know you either need to take more notes, or take better ones.

Eliminate Distractions- Turn off the music and the television. Head to the library, your bedroom or anywhere you can find peace and quiet to read.

Read Aloud– Reading aloud allows you to slow down and to read with more time to process the words. This is an additional benefit for visual learners. If you find that reading aloud helps, you might find ‘books on tape’ to be particularly useful.

Use a Dictionary- Have a dictionary on hand to improve vocabulary. Stop, look it up, and write it down in your notes so that you’ll remember.

Start with a Below Level Book- Reading should not have you straining to figure out what the words mean, or have you reading sentences over and over. Read books at slightly below level to start, to gain confidence and find joy in the story, instead of a struggle with the language.


Reading is like most things and is done best when practised often. Help yourself get the most out of your reading!




We Want Your Stories & Manuscripts NOW!

Do you have a story or manuscript that you think we’d be interested in?


be-that-books-website-title1.jpgBe That Books Publishing is currently accepting any self help, well being, health, and children’s book manuscripts at this time. We are interested in books that are life inspiring, innovative and breathe a sense of exhilaration into their readers.




For more reasons on why you should choose us, click HERE.


The Importance of Summer Reading

When I say ‘Summer Reading’… I am not talking about what you will be reading at the beach this summer. Summer reading discusses the loss or decline in your child’s reading development, when the children are out of class on summer vacation and are not participating in formal literacy programs.

Did you know that children can drop up to three reading levels over the summer??


Most of the Fall is spent reviewing things learned the previous year, so not only will you be saving the teacher a few hours by continuing to practice reading over the summer, but you’ll be saving your child the pains of playing catch up!  It is usually the children who have difficulties reading that experience the most loss over the summer, and sometimes, that can leave them even further behind.

8 Tips to Help Encourage Summer Reading!

  • Visit the Library More Often! Your kids will be speeding through books with all their free time, so you might have to ‘borrow’ more often to keep up with your little enthusiasts!
  • Scout for books that you know your child will enjoy. Do they like comic books? Use their hobbies and interests to fuel their love of reading! It doesn’t matter what they are reading, it is only important that they are!
  • Present reading as an activity with a purpose! Reading is a way to gather info… let your children help you plan a day trip or an outing.
  • Encourage older siblings to read to younger siblings.
  • Play board games that encourage reading skill usage.
  • Introduce the ‘Bookmark’ to your child! It is important that your child doesn’t feel compelled to finish a book in one sitting, or even, to finish that book ever! Let them read for however long they can, then take a break. Different children will have different tolerances for practice, so be sure to not make reading feel like a painful chore. Reading is a fun activity always!
  • Offer special incentives to encourage your child to read. Maybe they can stay up an extra 15 minutes to finish off their chapter, see a movie based on the story they are reading or to be relieved from a chore to make extra time for reading!
  • Most importantly, let your children see YOU read.  Ultimately, if you have  a good relationship with reading, they will too!


Happy Summer Reading!


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Feng Shui and ‘Prom Mom‘ knowledge all over Calgary!


 FS Local Blog- May 30th/14 
MOMpreneur: Tina O’Connor


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Have a Super Weekend!


Three Easy Steps to the Life You Desire


Over the last decade, I have extensively researched the topic of self-help and personal development. Although many authors make this topic complicated, achieving the life you desire is actually very easy. By following three easy steps, you can change virtually any area of your life — and did I happen to mention it is easy? In fact, you are already doing it and you don’t even realize it. Everything that is happening in your life, you have tremendous influence over and you are influencing every area of your life… even as you sit here and read this blog.

Let me explain….


With three simple steps, we can change anything in our life.


Step One: Create the desire

In my travels, one of the most common questions I get from audiences is “I don’t know what I want in the future”. You see, when we know what we desire, creating the desire becomes very easy. So… how do we identify our desire? I always use two methods, the first is listen to what you emotions are telling you, when you feel negative emotions, fear, anxiety, stress and anger, stop for a second and ask yourself what are you thinking about and what is creating that emotion? Normally, you are really wanting the opposite of it. For example, if you feel anxiety or stress around a relationship or lack of a relationship, your desire is to have a meaningful relationship. You will also notice when you have happy emotions, you are normally thinking about the things that are going well in your life, and there is no coincidence there!

If you already know your desired outcome, you can go right to the next step. Write your desires down on what I call a “dream sheet”. A “dream sheet”, if reviewed each day, will focus your attention on your desire with a laser focus. Think of it like a magnifying glass– if you move it around on a piece of paper nothing happens. but if you stop and focus the beam on one spot, the energy will create fire. I go in much more detail in my newest edition of “Bring About What You Think About” and in my speeches, but it is safe to say if you write down what you desire and read it everyday, your life will start down a whole new path. If it is a relationship you desire, start to focus your beam of energy on what an ideal relationship would look like, and how you would act and  of what would it feel like.


Step two: Believe You Can Achieve It

Believing you can achieve it, is no place for the weak of heart. This is where you have to change your thinking. You can’t move in the direction you want by believing the opposite and as odd as it sounds, many people do it. You can’t have a perfect relationship by thinking “all of the good people are taken” or “I will act better when they change”. This is called conflicting beliefs, and you will find that you have lots of them in the areas of your life where you are not achieving what you want. Think about all of the wonderful things that happen in your life, and you will see your beliefs align with your desires and outcomes. For example, if you are wanting great physical health, you align your beliefs with your desires and you believe that you are in great physical health, you eat the right food and you exercise because that supports your beliefs in the outcome.  Going back to the relationship example, all you need to have your desired relationship, is the belief that you can! You have to change any conflicting beliefs that may be holding you back, and believe the picture you are creating in your mind of the perfect relationship. So why did I say it is not for the faint of heart? Because, we can’t go into wanting a desire creating a fail-safe to save face. If you find yourself making excuses on why it may not work (to let yourself down gentle), in the event that perfect person does not come along, you are creating a conflicting belief.  Take the leap of faith and believe you can have your desire.


Step three: Become Receptive to the Desire

Being receptive, in the simplest terms, means becoming the person you would need to be, if you already received your desire. You see, the things that are going well in your life… you are already acting as if they are here, because they are and “there” is the key. Are we acting that way because they are here, or are they here because of the way we are acting?

In my own life, I struggled with weight. One day I said Eddie, are you applying this principle in your own life? Being roughly 215 pounds, I had  the desire to weigh 175 pounds, but I wasn’t acting like I had already achieved my desire. I took out a piece of paper and I wrote down all of the things I would be doing if I weighed my desired weight. What would I wear? What would I eat? How would I exercise and what would I feel like? Then, I wrote down a list of all of the answers to the same questions based on my 215 pound life, and there lays the gap. So I started acting like I already weighed my desired weight. I ate the food, exercised the way I envisioned it and I began to feel lighter on my feet. Within six months I weighed 175 pounds and I have never gone back to my heavier self.

We can insert the example of the relationship into Step 3 too. Are you acting the way you would, if you already had the perfect relationship? Are you loving, caring, and giving? Do you demonstrate your feelings for the person you are with, in a way they would like to receive them? The key is to be the person you would need to be, if you already had the relationship of your dreams.


I hope these three steps will have a profound impact on your life!

Remember, “Live Your Dreams” !


Eddie Lemoine
-International Speaker, Author and Employee Engagement Expert




Look for Eddie’s newest edition of
Bring About What You Think About“,
in stores mid- June 2014!